OH BABY!!!

Over the weekend i had the pleasure of attending one of my friends baby shower. It was really beautiful and also the first baby shower that i had been to where you don't win a prize if you win the games lol not that that's important but still...

Myself and one of our other friends purposely showed up late because we know how she is and knew that it wasn't going to start on time. So for us 45min late was on time. She looked beautiful the decorations where beautiful and her dessert table was everything. And if course at a baby shower you tend to get plenty of gifts.

With my gift i wrote i remembered some of my mistakes and some of my personal pet peeves that i wanted to share with her. Every mom in the world can agree to this because when you're a first time mother you really don't know how difficult it is in the beginning and you learn as you go on. So i wrote down my top 8 pet peeves for her i could've went to 10 but i was running out of space in the card smh, I should've took a picture of it but didn't.

Here are my v top 10 pet peeves for new moms:

1. When it gets closer to your due date please shave wax nair or whatever you do cuz u don't want your baby coming out of a bush ball...imagining that is just gross to me

2. Get a pedicure or diy there's gonna be too many people touching holding and looking at your body so be prepared for those long hours

3.my biggest mistake was keeping myself up by having my hair and eyebrows done and makeup (shes been doing all of this so i told her to continue to do that) somebody told me that the way your baby sees you at birth is the way they will see you majority of the time.

4. Speak positive things over your bodyand your baby

5. Breast feeding is great healthier and cheaper however it doesn't alwayswork for everybody or their baby and if the baby doesn't like it don't force it

6. Always remember to stay calm babies can feel other people's emotions and if she's crying and you can't figure out what's wrong don't get mad and agitated cuz it only makes things worst

7. All babies work different what worked for one might not work for yours. Everybody's advice isn't going to work for you and that's ok.

8. To always have fun and enjoy your baby take plenty of pics and videos cuz time waits for no one and they grow up so fast

9. Always wash new clothes before putting them on your baby( i didn't do this all the time and i should have) germs germs germs should be enough said...

10. Trust your babies instinct even when they grow up you might not understand why they don't like someone or don't want to go to a certain place i don't know how but 9 times outta 10 they know something ain't right.

Some of you might agree or even disagree and that's fine.Other than that you'll figure everything else out in due time. P.s. if you have your own pet peeves for new moms and new babies in general leave your comments below i would love to read them ~Brown suga~